The latest from our experts on all Sexology topics
Coaching Desire Education Pleasure
Our self-worth is often attached to achievement and it can become all too easy to go after quick fixes. Sure there are some quick (and maybe a little naughty) ways to make your sex life better as quickly as in the next five minutes, but we’re going to focus on the long-term. Transformation happens...
Body Desire Education
You’ve heard of menopause, but that stage when you’re not quite there, but you don’t seem to have that same sexual spunk you had in your 20s and early 30s is called perimenopause. It can start anytime after you celebrate your 35th birthday and could last for 5 years or so. For some females, th...
Body Lifestyle Pleasure
Chocolate sundaes, puppies, heck, even tortilla chips get their own day on the calendar. Of all those things that bring delight and pleasure, we’re thrilled that May is world masturbation month. If you’ve been hanging around here a while, you probably know that we’re raving fans of self-pleasu...
Coaching Communication Desire Intimacy Pleasure Relationships
Let’s schedule it! It’s a perfectly fine phrase to hear around meetings and dentist appointments, but when it comes to your sex life, you might be pumping the brakes. It’s common to feel like sex should always be an in-the-moment activity, so deciding to pencil sexi time in for 8 pm on Tuesday...
Coaching Desire Pleasure
You spend so much of every day following the rules. You follow the speed limit, you save all your receipts for your taxes, and you still send thank you notes after receiving a gift. Whether you’re an avid rule-follower or you’re no stranger to taking a walk on the wild side, sometimes, bending t...
Desire Intimacy Pleasure
When you’d rather bathe your cat or do your taxes than have sexy time—we can assume you’re just not that into sex these days. Spiraling in a sea of exhaustion or resentment can put the fire out of your sex life so fast you’ll wonder what happened. Whether you’ve never really enjoyed sex, o...
Sexology International, like all of our work, is for people of all sexual preferences and all forms of gender expression, including people whose identity is something other than male or female. As such, we like to use gender-neutral pronouns. More recently accepted alternatives include words like “ze” and “hir” or the universal pronoun “they.” Throughout our work, we will be doing our best to use alternative pronouns, such as “they,” whenever gender or plurality is unimportant. In doing so we hope it helps everyone to feel included in the discussion and that it inspires you to think outside of traditional sex and gender binaries.