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Perhaps you’ve heard some gender-neutral pronouns recently. You’ve noticed them on TV and in movies, and now you’re hearing them more and more at work and in social settings. Maybe at first, maybe you weren’t completely clear about what you were hearing. And now, maybe you’re completely co...
Desire Intimacy Relationships
If your relationship begins feeling a little flat and less exciting than it once did, it can often be you’re not meeting each others’ expectations. When a relationship is fresh, there’s often plenty of fire to make it feel hot-hot-hot. As time goes forward, we get comfortable and settle into...
Culture Intimacy Relationships
If we find ourselves suffering — which as humans, we inevitably will, we can often chalk it up to a lack of connection — one that needs some fixing. Connection is the human experience of harmony. Connection is all about sharing experiences with others — Relating our ideas, feelings, and emotio...
Coaching Education Sexual Dysfunction
A familiar concern for people with penises when it comes to ejaculation is how quickly, or how slowly they get there while pleasuring their partners. Many males have tried to ‘hang in there’ when they feel like they’re about to explode or even wondered at some point if they could last ...
Communication Desire Education Lifestyle Relationships
Whether you’ve been in a relationship for a few months or 20 years, perhaps you’ve considered opening up your relationship — trying out an “open relationship.” Also known as consensual non-monogamy (CNM or ethical non-monogamy), it’s gaining recognition and some couples are giving it a t...
Body Coaching Education Sex
You’ve been faking it. At first, when you started having sex with your partner(s), you thought you might be able to, “fake it ‘til you make it.” But it’s been weeks, months, or even years and you’re far from “making it.” Maybe even the first time you did it, was just a teeny fake. A...
Sexology International, like all of our work, is for people of all sexual preferences and all forms of gender expression, including people whose identity is something other than male or female. As such, we like to use gender-neutral pronouns. More recently accepted alternatives include words like “ze” and “hir” or the universal pronoun “they.” Throughout our work, we will be doing our best to use alternative pronouns, such as “they,” whenever gender or plurality is unimportant. In doing so we hope it helps everyone to feel included in the discussion and that it inspires you to think outside of traditional sex and gender binaries.